Never assume

“If we are honest with ourselves, we have to admit that sometimes our assumptions and preconceived notions are wrong, and therefore, our interpretation of events is incorrect. This causes us to overreact, to take things personally, or to judge people unfairly.” ~Elizabeth Thornton, Scottish author of historical fiction

Things aren’t always as they seem. As every great magician knows, audiences interpret everything they see and hear through the filter of their own experience and beliefs. Sometimes they see and hear only what they wish to see and hear.

It’s sobering, really, when you consider how easily any situation could be misjudged or misunderstood — or taken personally. For instance, you might wonder if friends are angry with you if you don’t hear from them right away — when, in reality, they’re preoccupied with their own problems or away on vacation. Or you might misinterpret something you read on social media or in a text message.

It’s never a good idea to jump to conclusions, just as it’s never a good idea to believe everything you see or hear. You won’t be so easily fooled if you control your imagination, gather the (real) facts, and consider what’s actually going on in front of you. Remember, too, that you might not be aware of everything that’s happening offstage. Every aspect of your life will magically benefit from this practice. ~CL