The art of gifting
“The act of giving something to others is an art of flowering your heart.” ~ Vinayak
There are many different gifting styles and practices, and psychotherapists have some interesting theories on that. Some people get a thrill out of selecting presents for their loved ones, while others prefer not to express affection with material things. A few folks I know discourage gift-giving because they don’t want to feel obligated to reciprocate; others worry that they’ll select the wrong gift. Of course, some don’t have extra cash for gifting in their budget.
The most thoughtful presents come from the heart, no strings attached. For instance, a friend of mine is a creative knitter who crafts cuddly keepsake toys for kids, including my grandson.
Gift giving doesn’t need a special occasion. In fact, obligatory gift-buying always stresses me out during the winter holidays — but I think it’s fun to buy “no reason” presents whenever the mood strikes. When I’m out shopping, I’ll often purchase small items that are perfect for certain loved ones, then surprise them with my treasures when the time is right. What’s your giving style? Do you enjoy gift giving?
Cindy La Ferle
Throughout my career, I've worked as a book production editor, travel magazine editor, features writer, and weekly newspaper columnist. My award-winning lifestyles features and essays have appeared in many national magazines and anthologies, including Newsweek, Reader's Digest, The Christian Science Monitor, Writer's Digest, Victoria, Better Homes & Gardens, Bella Grace, and more. My weekly Sunday "Life Lines" column ran for 14 years in The Daily Tribune (Royal Oak, MI) and won a First Place (Local Columns) award from the Michigan Press Association. My essay collection, Writing Home, includes 93 previously published columns and essays focusing on parenthood and family life.
