You be you
“Forget popularity; focus on sincerity. Do what you do, not for applause, but because it is what is right for you. Practice respecting yourself and becoming a reliable part of your own support system.” ~Angel Chernoff, Marc and Angel Hack Life
The word “popularity” still sends me back down Memory Lane to junior high school. And today’s quote from Marc and Angel got me thinking about the difference between sincerity and popularity.
When we focus on being popular, we value the number of friends we have rather than the quality of their character, or their compatibility. Likewise, when we try to stay “on trend” with our creative projects, we risk lowering the quality and authenticity of our work. Popularity involves constant striving for approval and applause — no matter how shallow or insincere it seems. Popularity exhausts us. Sincerity nurtures.
When we speak and live our own truth, we might risk alienating others who disagree. But sincerity always earns self-respect and healthy, authentic relationships. ~CL
Cindy La Ferle
Throughout my career, I've worked as a book production editor, travel magazine editor, features writer, and weekly newspaper columnist. My award-winning lifestyles features and essays have appeared in many national magazines and anthologies, including Newsweek, Reader's Digest, The Christian Science Monitor, Writer's Digest, Victoria, Better Homes & Gardens, Bella Grace, and more. My weekly Sunday "Life Lines" column ran for 14 years in The Daily Tribune (Royal Oak, MI) and won a First Place (Local Columns) award from the Michigan Press Association. My essay collection, Writing Home, includes 93 previously published columns and essays focusing on parenthood and family life.
4 Comments
Rick Smith
A good one Cindy.
Cindy La Ferle
Thanks, Rick! Appreciate that.
Mary Ann Pickett
Such great advice. I am here freom Cindy Hattersley’s blog post today!
Carol S.
Gosh haven’t thought of this comparison and difference. I have many authentic and meaningful friendships, and I’m hoping it’s sincerity based. It is. Thanks to Cindy Hattersley for sharing your link.