Fierce after 50

Like most mature women I know, I have an uneasy relationship with mirrors in department store fitting rooms. While trying on clothes, I scrutinize my body like a roadmap, noting the topography of my lifelong journey. I can still spot traces of post-delivery stretch marks and joint replacement scars, not to mention those newly acquired age spots that can’t quite pass as freckles. But that’s OK.

Last week, I heard Cat Stevens’ “Miles from Nowhere” on my car radio. The tune was a favorite of mine in high school, but its lyrics resonate even more now:

     Lord my body, it’s been a good friend / But I won’t need it when I reach the end.

unnamed-1Throughout six decades, my body has been a very good friend indeed. It has endured years of dancing classes, playground accidents, and skinned knees. It was hit by a car; it gave birth to one spectacular son. It has survived blood transfusions, several bouts of skin cancer, and two hip replacements. 

I was in much better shape in my twenties, yet I constantly compared myself to other women. In those days — and even on good days — I believed I fell short of our culture’s impossibly high standards of fitness and beauty. Thankfully, maturity broadens and reshapes our view of physical perfection (and not just our backsides). 

On the road to aging well, it also helps to have a few inspiring role models to light the way. While researching pro-aging topics for my monthly columns in Michigan Prime, I’ve happily discovered a whole new world of female fashion bloggers who are rocking their late forties, fifties, sixties, seventies, eighties, and beyond. I’ve only scratched the surface, but here is a short list of my favorites:

Advanced Style

Brenda Kinsel

Fabulous after 40 


The Middle Page

More than turquoise by Jamie Lewinger

Style at a certain age

Stylish Paradox

Susan after 60

Tamara Beardsley


Une femme d’un certain age

DSCN0029No matter how old we are, those of us who love fashion want to see ourselves mirrored in magazine spreads, ad campaigns, and fashion catalogs. We want to see clothing modeled on women close to our own age — in all shapes and sizes. Despite the fact that our demographic wields considerable spending power, we’re consistently overlooked by most fashion editors and advertisers. 

That’s why I’m grateful for mature fashion bloggers. Flaunting beauty, courage, and confidence, they remind all of us that we, too, can be women of style as well as substance.


Top photo: That’s me with my husband, Doug, both in our sixties. We’re posing for HAP’s Balanced Living magazine — our first cover shot.  

7 thoughts on “Fierce after 50

  1. It is so nice to see other women looking great–even as we age, Cindy!!
    This Fierce 50 Movement can hopefully be a launching ground for us to realize that growing old is good—not bad!!
    I have a blog that even incorporates my step mom (the 60’s model) and my mom (the 70’s model)!! Because hopefully, we can realize that style is ageless!!

  2. Hi Cindy,

    Love reading about your story. I know for sure I’m better in my 60’s than in my 20’s. My Mother was very sick when I was 12 years old. I resented her illness and what it did to her physically she was in her 40’s when this happened. I have 2 children one is 40 yrs. and 23yrs. My prayer is that I would always look amazing and I pray that God has kept his promise to me. I am employed in the Pharmaceutical industry and I believe age is just a number. I love reading stories about woman like us and I thank God for the Fierce 50 Movement.

    Here’s to Flourishing💚💚💚

  3. Hi Cindy, I just found you from Susan of Une Femme and wanted to let you know that I am also a Michigan blogger! I’m also one of the few over 40 bloggers who are not thin, actually a size 16, yet still finding great clothes and still rockin’ an outfit. I’d love for you to pop by!


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